Archive for November, 2009

Dear Miss Amelia,

Posted by Lonica on November 29th, 2009

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Today you turn three months old. Already I am starting to miss my newborn, as you can no longer be considered that! Last time we checked, you weighed in at just over 15 pounds. You have gotten so tall that many of your pants and sleeves no longer fit and your ankles hang over your nursing pillow. We’ve even had to move the shoulder straps up to the next higher notch in your car seat.

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You’ve also become much more social in the last month—something your dad and I are very excited about. You will follow us with your eyes as we move around the kitchen or room. Now you smile when you’re happy or we make funny faces. My favorite, though, is when you give me a big old grin as I come to lift you out of your crib. We think you’re lots more reactive, as well. You will startle and jump if we scare you on accident. Maybe it’s just wishful thinking on our part, but your dad and I like to think that you’ve started to give us hugs. It’s nothing more you resting your arm on our shoulder, but it sure feels good.

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You’ve gained lots more control over your hands. You can always wiggle them out of your swaddling and you have become a champion thumb sucker. We’ve stopped giving you the pacifier—it seems to cause more problems than it solves—but you’ve taken to sucking on your thumb any chance you get. You have discovered the television and seem to find the moving images fascinating. You will crane your neck around to stay focused on the screen and exhibit no interest in your bottle or in burping. That doesn’t mean that you never eat, though. You still chow down on the milk every three hours when your belly is empty.

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You have definitely kept me on my toes when it comes to your sleeping habits, seeing as you like to change things up on a weekly basis. One week you decide that waking up at 3:30 in the morning is your style. The next, you’ll sleep through the night but decide you only need 45 minute cat naps during the day. We’ve been battling it out. I have many theories as to why you do what you do, but sometimes I wish you could just tell me what’s wrong! We put you to bed every night in your adorable sleep sack, so you stay warm and toasty. Now, I can usually count on you to sleep between 8-10 hours straight at night after your last feeding, but it’s a total guess what you will do during the day. I haven’t given up hope, though, that you’ll return to longer naps. Just today, it seems you’re doing better and I have an inkling that your witching hour fussiness is over.

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You’ve had lots of firsts this month. You met your aunt Raquel and my friend Alyson came to visit. You’ve dressed up for your first Halloween, gone on your first road trip, ridden on your first boat and subway, watched your first parade, enjoyed your first Thanksgiving, and watched your first snowfall. Against my better judgment, your dad has given you your first tastes of ketchup, chocolate, and pickles—all good Rowley foods—but you don’t seem like any of them.

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We certainly are glad that you came to join our family, for we love you lots and lots!

The Changer of Many Poopy Diapers,

Mom

Quest for Favorite Aunt

Posted by Lonica on November 24th, 2009

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Raquel came to Columbus to visit. She currently holds the lead position in the Quest for the Favorite Aunt status—it’s amazing what can happen when you are the first aunt Amelia meets.

We were awfully busy while she was here. We shopped at the outlet malls.

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Toured Columbus looking for painted wall murals.

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Visited parks fashioned after Seurat Paintings.

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Pretended to be budding professional photographers.

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Made fun of the budding professional photographer.

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Dropped by Moritz.

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Decked ourselves in Scarlett and Gray.

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Entertained many a middle-age lady and college girl with our little, darling Buckeye Baby.

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Joined in the Game Day fun at the Skull Session.

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Viewed the Chihuly exhibit at the Franklin Conservatory.

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Watched a glass blowing exhibit.

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Pretended once more to be a budding professional photographer with an artistic vision.

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Made a yummy lemon custard.

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Waved a sad farewell… till Christmas, that is.

Scott told me to check my e-mail

Posted by Lonica on November 22nd, 2009

After arriving home from Church today, I found this in my in-box:

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and this:

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Yes, that’s right, we will be traveling to the Big Apple to witness the Macy’s Day Parade live. It is the fulfillment of many years of wishful thinking. A great surprise! A road trip to a great destination. A very thoughtful husband. So take that Travel Gods!

P.S. Anyone have any trips on traveling with an infant? Particularly on road trips? Particularly in a big city? Advice welcome…

My Daughter is Camera Shy

Posted by Lonica on November 19th, 2009

Between that and my pathetic photography skills, we have yet to capture Amelia’s ellusive smile in any sort of digital form.

Or perhaps it is just too hard to lift those cheeks for any significant amount of time.

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Believe it or not, she was smiling before and after the shutter snaped in each of these images!

Don’t worry, though, grandmas. We’ll keep trying…

My Random Reflections

Posted by Lonica on November 17th, 2009

while running errands the other day…

At the Dry Cleaners

“Do you think he recognizes what valuable garments and moments of my life events he is privy to?” … as I hand over Amelia’s lovingly homemade blessing gown…

At Sally’s Beauty Supply

“What would it be like to return to high school, where fire engine red streaks were acceptable?” … as giddy teenagers examine the possibility of hair dye…

At Wal-Mart

“Do infants really need $10 vitamin drops?” … “Am I a bad mother if I neglect my daughter’s infant vitamin drops simply because they are $10?” … “Are the pharmaceutical companies preying on vulnerable mothers in this very conundrum?” … “Why are there no generic vitamin drops for infants?” … as I peruse and compare price tags…

“Why do I bother to dot my i and fit my y within the teeny-tiny electronic screen? It’s nearly impossible!” … “Am I that big of a perfectionist?” … as I checkout with a line of impatient grocery-shoppers behind me.

On the Drive Home

“Is it possible to have so many opinionated bummer stickers that you appear to stand for nothing?” … as a thoroughly plastered vehicle passes in front of me.

“No amount of psychedelic flower-power stickers can change the fact that you’re still driving a 12-passenger Chevy van.” … as a teenager bopping to music and popping gum flies by me.

It was a typical errand-running trip—if not very insightful…